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Dom/sub Starter Worksheet

Tool

Use our interactive tool to build your dynamic together. Create and save your negotiation plan.

Boundaries and limitsCommunication preferencesPower exchange expectations+1 more

Activity Compatibility Matcher

Tool

Compare interests with your partner and discover new activities together.

Partner compatibility scoringActivity recommendationsDiscussion point identification+1 more

Negotiation Guide

Guide

How to discuss desires, boundaries, and expectations effectively.

Pre-scene conversationsEstablishing safewords and signalsDiscussing health considerations+1 more

Aftercare Essentials

Guide

Comprehensive guide to post-scene care for both Doms and subs.

Physical aftercare techniquesEmotional support strategiesDom drop and how to address it+1 more

Kink Positive: Mental Wellness

Guide

Navigating the intersection of kink, mental health, and holistic self-care.

Kink as a healthy coping mechanismIdentifying potentially unhealthy patternsFinding kink-aware therapists & support+1 more

The Strength in Surrender

Guide

Exploring the profound power, agency, and joy found in consensual submission.

Active vs. passive submissionSetting boundaries as a submissiveThe liberation of letting go+1 more

The Caring Dominant

Guide

Leading with integrity, empathy, and a profound focus on your partner's well-being.

Ethical leadership in D/sDeeply understanding submissive needsThoughtful and responsive control+1 more

Power Dynamics in Everyday Life

Guide

Integrating consensual power exchange beyond the bedroom for deeper connection.

Subtle D/s in public spacesShared decision-making frameworksMeaningful daily rituals+1 more

Play & Protocol Ideas

Guide

Rituals, tasks, and scene prompts to explore your power exchange.

Daily ritual suggestionsScene ideas for different intensity levelsLong-distance dynamic activities+1 more

What is Degradation?

Guide

Understand the line between hot and harmful. A clear, consent-driven breakdown.

Different types of verbal playPsychological impacts and considerationsNegotiation strategies+1 more

Sensation Play Guide

Guide

Explore the world of sensory experiences from temperature to texture.

Temperature contrastsTexture explorationSensory deprivation+1 more

Creative Role Play

Guide

Explore personas and power dynamics through imaginative scenarios.

Creating compelling scenariosCharacter development techniquesPower exchange through roles+1 more

Intensity & Heat

Guide

Turn up the fire with passionate, intense scenes and dynamics that keep the spark alive.

Sexual tension and anticipationIntense psychological scenesSensory overload experiences+1 more

Creative Play & Imagination

Guide

Explore the fun, playful, and imaginative side of power exchange dynamics.

Playful scene ideas and gamesCreative rituals and protocolsBuilding a fun dynamic+1 more

Queer-Specific Power Dynamics

Guide

Exploring power exchange outside of heteronormative frameworks.

Gender and power in BDSMNavigating roles and expectationsCommunity-specific terminology+1 more